Mindful Dating Shop interior: considered light and curated objects
The Shop

Resolve your pattern.
Align with love.

Trauma-informed coaching. Somatic healing. Chakra work. Hypnotherapy when the pattern calls for it. Pattern analysis as the entry, not the destination. Where the pattern gets named, then resolved at the root, so you can align with the love you’re actually here for.

Lane 1 · Verify fit

Feel the work and the practitioner
before you commit.

Complimentary live sessions and a self-paced masterclass. Where the pattern gets named and you decide if this is your practitioner. Not sample content. The real methodology, at the diagnostic layer.

Complimentary live pattern analysis sessions with Shane Campbell
Complimentary · Live

Three complimentary rooms
to feel the work first.

Live sessions where the pattern gets named and you decide if this is your practitioner. The Relationship Pattern Analysis session, the Connection and Depth Pattern Analysis, and the “You Keep Giving Yourself Away” room for women.

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Three men in a considered warm-light studio: The Availability Trap Pattern Analysis for men
Self-paced · For men

The Availability Trap.
A Pattern Analysis
built for men.

A self-led Pattern Analysis for men, built from 266 men who told us where the pattern actually lives. Name what the wrong connections have been costing you in time, money, energy, and emotional bandwidth. Walk away with a full Pattern Analysis emailed to you.

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You can keep paying little or nothing and keep experiencing the same outcome. Or you can resolve the pattern at the root and align with the love you’re actually here for.
Lane 2 · Invest in the work

Where the pattern gets resolved.

Group rooms, private 1:1 with Shane, and the signature 6-8 week Journey. This is where the pattern gets decoded, the trauma underneath gets named, and (in the deeper containers) somatic, energetic, hypnotherapy, and unblocking work resolve it at the root.

Group · Live rooms

Live pattern decoding and clarity work in small groups.

Small live group room for Pattern Decode Session with Shane Campbell
Live · Paid group

Pattern Decode Group

A 90-minute live group room with up to 15 people. Shane looks at your pattern analysis and decodes it. You leave knowing where the pattern lives at the root, how it’s affecting your life, and which trauma needs resolving so you can end the pattern and align with love.

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Live Dating Diagnostic workshop with community and Shane Campbell
Live · Paid group

Date With Clarity
Mindful Dating and Relationship Workshop with Shane Campbell

A 120-minute facilitated live workshop where you take The Dating Diagnostic™ inside a like-minded community, get your Clarity Card™, and ask Shane questions about what came up. Live debrief. Real conversation with people who are here to align. You may even meet someone whose alignment you’ll want to check.

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Private · 1:1 with Shane

Direct access. Where the pattern gets a laser focus and the deeper work begins.

Reflective moment at a considered desk: The Doorway Conversation with Shane Campbell
Private · Intro consult

The Doorway
Conversation

A private conversation with Shane to determine the right path into the deeper work. The threshold before the container.

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Precision workspace for private 1:1 Pattern Clarity Session with Shane Campbell
Private · Entry-level 1:1 with Shane

Relationship Pattern
Clarity Session

45 minutes of laser focus with Shane on your pattern. She takes a deep dive into your pattern analysis, discusses patterns that weren’t captured on your form, gives you a fuller analysis on where you are, names the traumas that have led you to repeat these patterns, and gives direction on the path forward so you can resolve the pattern and align with love.

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Shane Campbell in warm ambient light: Deep Dive Session
Private · The middle ground

Deep Dive Session
with Shane

A 1-hour private session with Shane. Trauma-informed coaching. Hypnotherapy when the pattern calls for it. You’ll talk through what’s happening, leave with homework and exercises to work on between sessions, and start moving. This is the low-cost access to Shane for people who aren’t ready to commit to the full 6-8 week Mindful Dating Journey™ but are ready to start resolving the pattern.

See the Deep Dive The current sweet spot for people ready to move past the diagnostic layer.
Self-paced · Self-led

Move without a facilitator. Self-led doesn’t mean less curated.

Curated self-inquiry moment: The Dating Diagnostic™
Digital · Self-paced

The Dating
Diagnostic™

165+ prompts. 9 sections. Get clear on what you may need to work on and what type of relationship is actually best for you. Walk away with your Clarity Card™ and use your Align Card™ to check compatibility with a prospective partner. We don’t negotiate your non-negotiables. Get clear and align with healthy love.

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Atelier setting with curated shelves and warm light: The Vault at the Mindful Dating Shop
Digital · Self-paced · Self-led

The Vault

Immersive regressive meditations with hypnotherapeutic modalities woven in. Matrix reimprinting. Quantum physics practices. Chakra bundles matched to your pattern. Companion reflection journals to unpack what surfaces. Self-led doesn’t mean less curated.

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Curated setting for The Mindful Dating Journey™ signature container with Shane Campbell
The signature path

The Mindful
Dating Journey™

Resolve your pattern. Align with love.

A 6-8 week Journey where the full methodology is delivered inside one integrated container. Trauma-informed coaching. Somatic healing through yoga and movement. Chakra work with the pendulum. Unblocking sessions. Hypnotherapy when the pattern calls for it. Personalized because trauma shows up differently in different people, and the Journey was built to honor that. Recommended by therapists and clinicians globally. Reserved for those who qualify through a Doorway Conversation.

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About Shane

Built by a Relationship Behaviorist.

Shane Campbell is a Relationship Behaviorist, published author, and international public speaker. The Mindful Dating methodology is her original work.

The Modern Dating Pattern Report, an 882-person independent study across 20+ countries, is how she gathered the data. The methodology is how the data got collected. The offers you see here are what the data revealed people were actually looking for.

The Mindful Dating Journey™ is recommended by therapists and clinicians globally.

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Frequently asked

The short answers.

What is a Pattern Analysis?

A Pattern Analysis is the diagnostic layer of the Mindful Dating methodology. It’s how Shane identifies the specific pattern keeping you stuck in dating: what the pattern is, how it’s affecting you, and which trauma underneath needs resolving. It happens in the complimentary group sessions, the Pattern Decode Group, the Relationship Pattern Clarity Session, and the self-paced Men’s Masterclass. It’s the entry, not the destination. The deeper work resolves what the analysis reveals.

How is this different from talk therapy or coaching?

Talk therapy and coaching can help you understand what’s happening. Shane’s work is designed to help you resolve it. The methodology integrates trauma-informed coaching with somatic healing, chakra work, unblocking sessions, and hypnotherapy when the pattern calls for it. The full stack is delivered inside the signature 6-8 week Mindful Dating Journey™, recommended by therapists and clinicians globally. This is where the pattern gets moved through the body, not just talked about.

Where do I start if I haven’t worked with Shane before?

Start with a complimentary live session. Two of the three are open to everyone, and one is specifically for women. Men have an additional entry point in the self-paced Men’s Masterclass, built from the 266 men who participated in the research. Both routes are Pattern Analysis at the diagnostic layer. If you’re already clear on your pattern and ready to move, book The Doorway Conversation and Shane will determine the right container for you. The Dating Diagnostic™ is another self-paced starting point if you want your Clarity Card™ before booking anything live.

What is the Mindful Dating Journey™?

The signature 6-8 week Journey where the full methodology is delivered inside one integrated container. Trauma-informed coaching, somatic healing through yoga and movement, chakra work with the pendulum, unblocking sessions, and hypnotherapy when the pattern calls for it. Personalized because trauma shows up differently in different people, and the Journey was built to honor that. Recommended by therapists and clinicians globally. Reserved for those who qualify through a Doorway Conversation.