Three considered men in a warm cream studio setting for The Availability Trap Pattern Analysis masterclass with Shane Campbell
Self-paced · Pattern analysis for men

The Availability Trap.
Decode Your Dating Pattern.

Stop repeating the same painful loop. Name the pattern. See the cost. Walk away with a real Pattern Analysis emailed to you.

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Why this course exists

Built from 266 men who told us
where the pattern actually lives.

The Modern Dating Pattern Report, Part III, revealed something the loudest voices in the dating conversation get wrong. Men aren’t failing at dating because they don’t care. They’re failing because they keep investing in the wrong direction, and nobody’s helping them see it.

Time. Money. Energy. Emotional bandwidth. Spent on connections that were never the right fit to begin with.

This course is the interrupt.

“He wasn’t afraid of commitment. He was afraid of committing to the wrong thing again.”
The Modern Dating Pattern Report, Part III

This course is one entry point into the M.I.N.D Framework™, Shane’s original methodology and the intellectual spine of the Mindful Dating ecosystem.

Inside the course

Four things by the end.

01

Name the exact pattern keeping you stuck. It’s called the Availability Trap. Stop calling it bad luck or wrong people.

02

See the real cost of staying in it. Time, money, energy, self-trust, peace. The decision to change starts feeling obvious.

03

Learn the four principles that govern how dating patterns actually change. Demonstrated through Sam, a composite male client’s full journey from stuck to free.

04

Walk away with a complete Pattern Analysis, emailed to you. Built from your own answers. Yours to return to whenever you need.

Format Self-paced, on Udemy
Length About an hour of guided work
What to bring Your companion form, open the entire time
What you receive A complete Pattern Analysis, emailed to you
Ready to name it?

The first step is naming the pattern.

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Frequently asked

The short answers.

Do I have to be actively dating to take this?

No. This work doesn’t require you to be in a relationship, actively dating, or know who you want. It only requires you to be honest with yourself for the next hour.

Is this course only for men?

The framework is universal. The composite client is a man named Sam. The research anchor is Part III of the Modern Dating Pattern Report, drawn from 266 men who showed up and told the truth. If you’re a man ready to interrupt this pattern, this course was built with you in mind. If you aren’t a man and the description resonates, you’re welcome inside.

How do I get my Pattern Analysis?

You’ll complete a companion form as you move through the course. When you submit at the end, your full Pattern Analysis is emailed to you so you can return to it whenever you need.

What is the M.I.N.D Framework™?

The M.I.N.D Framework™ is Shane Campbell’s original methodology for conscious connection and the intellectual spine of the Mindful Dating ecosystem. Every offer inside the shop, including this course, is a delivery of the framework in a specific format. This course is one entry point into it.

Does this course use AI?

Yes. The course uses AI to generate the slide visuals and format the deck from Shane’s outline input, plus AI-assisted transcription of the recorded content. The methodology, framework, research, and clinical insight are all original to Shane and her practice. AI handles the presentation layer, not the thinking underneath it.